Bummed for one of my friends who is in a similar boat. She got married last year to a guy who'd had a vasectomy. Like G, he'd had no kids, just a bad marriage (my friend's husband has been divorced twice), and decided to get snipped (why, why, why, she says as she bangs her head on desk). S's husband had a successful vas reversal early this year or late last year, but they're not pregnant yet. I'm assuming his sperm count is higher than G's. She's not sure if she ovulates on a regular basis, and has short cycles. I'm almost more frantic for them than I am for us because she's 41, but she may have plenty of time. I don't know. It's nice to be able to be there for her, though, and steer her to info she doesn't have.